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Thursday, February 28, 2008

Obsessed by Books

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

Am I obsessed or what? Books are my pleasure. I don't care about having a new model of blouse or veil. But books??? OMG... If I could, I'd be travelling around the world seeking the incomplete books of my collection.

Yesterday I did my sightseeing at Toko Buku Gunung Agung Jakarta. Just acoompanied my Friend, Diah. And you know... I spent IDR 248 K for Bu Siti Fadillah Supari Book and Paulo Coelho's Eleven Minutes. And know... I'm still having my fever coz I release the classic story Tolstoy's Anna Karenina. What an amazed world.

Do I consider a sick person ??? Ohh.. Not really. I'm not that freak, coz I'm constrainted by the money I have. he..he.. And, in the financial strategic, I've never read about 'Give the solid definition that can split your needs and willing on books'. oh yea?? hm... dunow.

WA Lt.11 11.50 AM 28/2/2008

Friday, February 15, 2008

The Language of Love [Spouses Preview]

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

It's not about a million time saying I LOVE YOU to the one we admire. No.... Because it's to easy, even a cool-less-expressive person can do it.

It's very easy to understand our spouse through the language of love when he / she is showing their Pluses points. In the contrary, we sometimes dismiss all the good of our spouse when he/she did something ehm.. miserable. And in this case, the conprehensive of language of love is needed.

Language of love is about keep fallin' in love with our spouse when he/she did something miserable. At that time, it's gonna be tough for us to keep smiling pretending there's nothing happen. And that is the most challanging-time to conquer our egoes and sincereness. By telling him/her that she/he was wrong, by showing him/her the right thing to do do repair the mistakes, and not to forget ... to forgive him/her before she/he asks apologize.

Language of love ...
Totally about talk with your heart [not jut talk through your heart] and let your spouse get the same preview on their mind.

17th South Victory - Street
15/2/2008 2.53 PM
Free-day when the emotion comes up because of 1 word : v*******e .
in a deep love feeling to my spouse. I love you Mas ... plis forgive me.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Illogical

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

What's inside love is absolutely illogical. I totally in love with my hubby. I married to him without any 'chemistry' or such the romance feeling or anything. but now, I'm enjoying the amazing love. [n I pray this love is under HIS bless]

No metter how angry you are, hate his rule that is confrontate to yours, dislike his habit, you still have a huge 'compromise room' for him. And when you found him flowing in your compromise river, U will see that as a very beautiful thing in your lifespot.

Alhamdulillah Ya Robb ...
ALLAHUMMA Innaka ta'lamu ana haadzihil quluub, Qodij tama'at 'alaa mahabbatik ...

WA iith Floor 13-2-2008 2.46 PM

All I Need Is

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

All that I need to feed my brain are :
1. Doing sometheng worthedfull for other people.
2. Doing something that encourage my neuron to get up... snapping something.. and finally shot it with the bullets of 'I did it'.

Just wandering ... How can I feed my brain in this cozy glittery place? I wanna move out, but not know where to go. I rather being the cool like koi person than move out without any direction.

Oh God... forgive my sins for my grumbling. I just need to see the things outthere. Pliz show me God... while I'm seeking of it.

WA Lt. 11 jam 9.01
13/2/2008

Alhamdulillah ... Buku Mba Tia udah Terbit

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

Pagi ini blogwalking ke tempat yang udah lama ga aku kunjungi. Alhamdulillah, bukunya Mba Tia udah terbit. Buku Angin Berbisik. Ini adalah kumpulan tulisan Beliau di blog nya. Buku ini diterbitkan oleh penerbit Indie. Pastinya ga terlalu komersil; he..he..

Congrats buat mba Tia yah ...

WA Lt. 11 jam 8.05
13/2/2008

Friday, February 08, 2008

Ada 'Geledek' di Hari Imlek

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Itu kiasan.
Aku hanya ingin menggambarkan adanya berita yang sangaaaattt mengezutkan yang aku dengar di 7 Februari 2008 kemarin, yang kebetulan bertepatan dengan hari imlek.

Kisah seorang teman 1 kampung yang berbeda RW. Dia menikah 9 Januari 2008 yang lalu. Aku ga noticed dengan keadaan fisiknya. Secara tubuhnya memang besar, sehingga aku ga tau kalo pada hari H nya itu, ia sudah berbadan dua. Na'udzubillah min Dzaalik.

Masya Allah, antara marah dan sedih. Ada apa siyh dengan orang zaman sekarang ? Sampe-sampe mau 'down payment' dulu sebelum menikah. OK... aku, dan beberapa sahabatku juga pernah merasakan crisis di usia quarter. Tapi tidak lantas kami menurunkan kriteria, bahkan menurunkan martabat dan kehormatan kami tho ???

Duhhh... Dan ini lebih memiris hati. Teman 1 kampungku itu dan suaminya (yang sekarang) adalah orang-orang yang, secara fisik dan penampilan, punya komitmen yang cukup tinggi dalam menjalankan kepercayaannya.

Apa yang salah siyh? Apa yang error?

Sebegitu kuat dan cerdaskah syaithon? Apa sebegitu bodoh dan lemahkah manusia ?

pfiuhh... Alhamdulillah ya ALLAH, ENGKAU menjaga aku dari hal-hal sedemikian. Hal yang nista hina durjana. Na'udzubillah min Dzaalik

WA Lt.11 jam 11.36 8/2/2008

Reach in Year 2008

s.p.a.s.i...s.p.a.s.i

2008, cita-cita besar yang membuncah itu adalah :
1. Punya rumah
2. Great job, related to my basic field
3. Going abroad
4. Sekolah atau short course
5. 2 of mybestfriends, Hilda and Ning are finding someone suitable for each of them; then they get married.

Amien ...

WA Lt. 11 8/2/2008 jam 9.30